Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Days of Thanks #6
Today I am grateful for a husband and partner who is so much the yin to my yang. We are alike in so very many ways, but the few ways in which we are very different are incredibly important to the success of our friendship, our marriage, our lives as parents, and our lives in general. For one of many examples, today we met with our builders about the budget for the remodel of our new house (which we still aren't living in). The project is way over budget on lots of line items through no fault of our own (meaning the overages aren't due to us making extravagant finish choices and things like that). In a conversation that could easily have become a little heated (although hopefully it wouldn't have, since we actually like our builders a great deal and now consider them friends), Ed was the epitome of letting cooler heads prevail. He is so good in these situations where I would be so very bad if left to my own devices, and for that, I am so grateful. As I have said so many times since we met, he always makes me want to be a better person, which is what I think a marriage, or really any relationship, should be all about.