I am so grateful to have a place that I call home. My family moved around a few times when I was young, until we finally settled in Charlotte when I was almost ten. But my parents moved away from there when I graduated from college, so it never became “home” either—it was not where I went for holidays or visits with my parents. Until we moved to DC in 2007, I had lived in the Triangle for twelve of the preceding thirteen years, either in Chapel Hill or Durham. And UNC Law gave me the first sense of community I’d had since my high school youth group days. (Meeting Ed was no small part of this, of course). So even though I grew up mostly in Charlotte, I list Chapel Hill as my “hometown,” because that is what it is to me. And whenever I go there, I feel at home in a way I have never felt in my life.
So I’m especially grateful that it will soon be my permanent home once again (and hopefully forever this time). I’ve been invited to join the faculty at the law school as a Clinical Assistant Professor in the Writing and Learning Resources Center, which means that beginning in the fall of 2012, I will be teaching first-year legal research and writing at UNC Law. I can barely believe my good luck to have an opportunity to return not only to the town I love so much, but to the faculty of the school that gave me so much.
We will probably move in late spring/early summer. A day will come soon when it begins to really hit me what it will mean to leave the only place that Hudson ever lived with us. I can’t even imagine how that is going to feel. But for now, I feel so grateful to be moving back home, to live so close to my children’s grandparents and a few aunts and uncles, to have only a few more long trips down I-95 to endure, and to be able to give my children such a wonderful place to grow up. I want so much for them to have a feeling of home and community that I never had, and this move will be the first step in that direction.
In all your writing, it has been abundantly clear how you feel about Chapel Hill. What a wonderful opportunity for you. Your sweet family will set down roots, and Hudson's life will embed itself in that ground. I am happy that you will know the peace that comes with being home for good.
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Congrats Mandy!
ReplyDeleteThat is such a wonderful opportunity. I am positive that you will be a great teacher, and speaking as someone who grew up in the same neighborhood my whole life, I can tell you that you are giving your children an amazing gift by giving them a hometown.
ReplyDeleteThank you for doing these Days of Thanks. They remind me to reflect on what I am thankful for in my life.
Congratulations to you! NC is such a special place for you, although I can only imagine the ambivalence. I teach college as well, and it's something I really enjoy, and it's the perfect job for a mom with young kids.
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Congratulations Mandy. I am a stranger to you, but a neighbor in suburban Maryland who has been reading your blog and offering comments now and then. I'm not sure why I feel sad that you'll no longer be nearby -- isn't that peculiar? Nevertheless, this sounds like a wonderful move for you to finally be home, and to get to raise Jackson and his future siblings in that very dear place.
ReplyDeleteI'm so excited for you and the whole family,(a little jealous too)! Praying your gratitude stays with you!
ReplyDeleteMandy, we are going to miss you here in DC, but I am so excited for this great opportunity for you and the family. And you can trust that many of us neighborhood families will visit Hudson's Arboretum bench often and keep her memory there.
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And we can't wait to have you guys back! And I know Luke is excited to have you as part of the RRWA team.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your new job, Mandy! What wonderful news!
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