Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Halloween, My Little Monkey

Halloween was never a big deal in our house growing up. Sure, I trick-or-treated and carved a few jack-o-lanterns here and there, but my parents never really got into decorating the house or dressing up for trick-or-treaters or anything else like that. A dear friend from high school recently sent me some old pictures of us back then. One of them is of us dressed up for Halloween. She is wearing a fabulous joker costume (that I think her mother made) and I am just wearing black tights, candy corn boxer shorts, a black shirt, and cat ears. It’s a pretty good example of how un-Halloweeny the Hitchcocks were. My costumes never got much more complex than what you could do with a sheet and some glitter. So I never thought I’d be much for Halloween, either.

Until I had a child. Having Hudson changed my perspective on just about everything, and Halloween was no exception. Last year, Hudson was too little to understand anything about what was going on, so we didn’t go all out, but I was definitely already planning future Halloweens when Ed and I would decorate the front of the house, have snacks for Hudson and her siblings that included witches’ fingers and the like, make Halloween cookies with them, dress up to take them trick-or-treating, take them to haunted houses and hayrides and corn mazes, and help them come up with really clever costume ideas once they got old enough to think about those things themselves.

We had no idea that her first Halloween was the only one we’d get to spend with her, so I’m glad that the memory is a very happy one that we documented well with pictures.

The first part of the Halloween celebration was at St. Ann’s, her school. They had a Halloween party and asked parents to send children in with homemade costumes. Well, I’ve never been very crafty (see story above) and was stumped for what kind of homemade costume I could do for an 11-month-old. (I’d already bought her a monkey costume on sale but was determined not to send her in a store-bought costume if everyone else was going to be wearing homemade. I should have known better, or at least checked around with parents who’d been around this block already). In desperation, on the morning of the Halloween party, I cut the finger puppets off of one of her favorite books, Old MacDonald Had a Farm, and pinned them to the front of a pair of Carhartt overalls her Aunt Jess had given her. So that no one would be perplexed as to what she was, I also cut off the fabric title page and pinned it to her back. (I felt bad about cutting up her book, but as it turned out the cut-off finger puppets became favorite toys later on. I now keep the cat in a side pocket in my purse and touch it every once in a while when I think of her.)

Here is the damning evidence:




Turned out to be sort of cute, but still totally embarrassing and totally reminiscent of the pathetic costumes I’d worn as a kid. (It was partly because of this that I decided Halloween would be a blow-out affair at our house in the years to come. My kid wasn’t going to be the embarrassed one with a lame costume!). I felt especially ridiculous when we got to school and saw TONS of kids in their store-bought costumes. Sigh.

As I mentioned, I’d already bought Hudson a costume before the homemade idea was made clear to us. Originally, we were thinking about a turtle costume, but as I’ve said before, although Hudson was “the turtle” while she was in my belly, she was not very turtle-like when she emerged. She was so much more like a monkey with her playful ways that I always called her “little monkey,” so a monkey costume seemed much more in order. She sported the costume to a Halloween party hosted by a member of our Brookland moms’ group. Halloween was particularly warm last year, so I spent most of the day worried that she was too hot inside all that stuffing.

But what a precious little monkey she made. Forgive all the pictures, but I know you parents understand the dilemma of trying to weed out photos that look alike.  Her smile, her gestures, the embraces—each is just different enough that you feel it’s worth sharing several photos of the same general subject matter.




(She loved, loved, loved this rocking horse.  She was rocking on it like she’d been doing it since she the day was born.  It is still one of my biggest regrets that we never got one for her to play with at home.)







My sweet girl. My little monkey. How I wish you were here with us to go trick-or-treating with your buddies this afternoon so everyone could ooh and ahh about how adorable and precocious you are. How I wish you were here so that we could have scooped out pumpkin guts together and made a mess making jack-o-lanterns. How I wish you were here so we could have spent the afternoon spreading sticky icing on Halloween cookies and getting it all over ourselves. How I wish you were here so I could see the expression on your face when you tried a piece of candy for the first time.

How I wish you were here.

I miss you so much, my girl. These pictures and sweet memories of you with me and Daddy are my One Good Thing on this sad, sad day without you.

14 comments:

  1. Such a beautiful baby. xoxo

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  2. What an adorable little monkey, Mandy. Such a beautiful little girl. Full of light and sunshine.She was and is so well loved. So so sad she is not here.

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  3. What wonderful memories. Thanks for sharing Hudson's first Halloween with us. Wishing you peace.

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  4. What fun we had one year ago today. The Zellers miss you, Hudson.

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  5. What a beautiful little monkey. Thanks for these photographs.
    p

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  6. So precious. Thinking of you guys tonight.

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  7. Precious pictures, Mandy. She was so lovely.

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  8. What great memories we have of Hudson last Halloween. I was just looking back through some of these same photos. Thinkng of you, Ed and Hudson. Kymber

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  9. Mandy, these pictures are precious. I was struck by how happy and joyous both you and Ed are in these pictures, and I know a day will come soon when you will be that happy and joyous again. Thinking of you always.

    Allyson Lawless

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  10. Cute little monkey. So, so adorable. I thought of you and Ed all weekend. Love, Sherry

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  11. I was recently looking through our photos of those two days, also. Both the St. Ann's and at the playdate party. Hudson was cutting it up the whole time! Crawling around when most of the other babies were still immobile. Grinning from out of her hooded monkey head. Giving the occasional monkey nip on the shoulder... We miss her, too!

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  12. I can hardly type through my tears Mandy....

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  13. Happy Holloween our Little Monkey!! We miss you..I loved you costume..the cow says moo moo here...God Bless

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  14. Such a beautiful girl, and so very very loved.

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